<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post176750238084741430..comments</id><updated>2009-10-24T14:17:17.223-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on sweatpantsmom: I thought I was done but maybe I'm not</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/feeds/176750238084741430/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html'/><author><name>sweatpantsmom</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02501471972355692992</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-5328372658961988922</id><published>2009-10-24T14:17:17.223-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-24T14:17:17.223-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I totally agree with Sarah's assessment and that's...</title><summary type='text'>I totally agree with Sarah&amp;#39;s assessment and that&amp;#39;s just flat out wrong. Keep fighting the good fight.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/5328372658961988922'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/5328372658961988922'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html?showComment=1256419037223#c5328372658961988922' title=''/><author><name>April</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12051174636017409935</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-176750238084741430' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/posts/default/176750238084741430' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-6308996262435145589</id><published>2009-10-24T08:24:44.233-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-24T08:24:44.233-07:00</updated><title type='text'>It sounds like classic "blame the victim" mentalit...</title><summary type='text'>It sounds like classic &amp;quot;blame the victim&amp;quot; mentality: they are afraid of &amp;quot;inciting&amp;quot; other child predators into action with these girls, so they&amp;#39;re enforcing the dress code uber-strictly so that no dirty old men are somehow carried away by bare shoulders and act out their icky desires. As if cloaking the girls in burkas would stop the pedophiles from any thoughts of </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/6308996262435145589'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/6308996262435145589'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html?showComment=1256397884233#c6308996262435145589' title=''/><author><name>Sarah Auerswald</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05548716089438052079</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-176750238084741430' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/posts/default/176750238084741430' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-7988891254052799635</id><published>2009-10-23T18:53:17.609-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T18:53:17.609-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm an alarmist, so I'd pull her from the school.
...</title><summary type='text'>I&amp;#39;m an alarmist, so I&amp;#39;d pull her from the school.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But as I said -- alarmist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Saner thing is I&amp;#39;m sure to go as a group to the District.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Awful.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/7988891254052799635'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/7988891254052799635'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html?showComment=1256349197609#c7988891254052799635' title=''/><author><name>thatgirlblogs</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10099875745851363649</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-176750238084741430' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/posts/default/176750238084741430' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-7755965016772511459</id><published>2009-10-23T17:40:00.079-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T17:40:00.079-07:00</updated><title type='text'>This is getting downright scary. Three, now? admin...</title><summary type='text'>This is getting downright scary. Three, now? administrators demonstrating inappropriate and even illegal behavior? towards the GIRL students? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time to move up the food chain? Head of school committee? Board of Education? Someone, seems like... You think?</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/7755965016772511459'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/7755965016772511459'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html?showComment=1256344800079#c7755965016772511459' title=''/><author><name>gurukarm (@karma_musings)</name><uri>http://gkkk04.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-176750238084741430' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/posts/default/176750238084741430' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-8612337064418510024</id><published>2009-10-23T17:14:29.571-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T17:14:29.571-07:00</updated><title type='text'>GRRRRR...I would be livid.  Rant away, and know th...</title><summary type='text'>GRRRRR...I would be livid.  Rant away, and know that we&amp;#39;re on your side (and those girls of yours)!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/8612337064418510024'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/8612337064418510024'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html?showComment=1256343269571#c8612337064418510024' title=''/><author><name>carrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04038972194323564240</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-176750238084741430' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/posts/default/176750238084741430' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-2028693197110700650</id><published>2009-10-23T17:09:46.097-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T17:09:46.097-07:00</updated><title type='text'>They can call it whatever they want but to me it s...</title><summary type='text'>They can call it whatever they want but to me it sounds like &amp;quot;verbal abuse&amp;quot;!</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/2028693197110700650'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/2028693197110700650'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html?showComment=1256342986097#c2028693197110700650' title=''/><author><name>NorCal Sistah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-176750238084741430' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/posts/default/176750238084741430' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-5523327956450232667</id><published>2009-10-23T16:52:18.412-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T16:52:18.412-07:00</updated><title type='text'>And you shouldn't be done until you're satisfied, ...</title><summary type='text'>And you shouldn&amp;#39;t be done until you&amp;#39;re satisfied, completely satisfied, about where this person was coming from who verbally made your child very, very uncomfortable.  Was his intent to discomfort your child, to make her doubt herself, to scare her...just what was his fucking motive?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And now, all these years after my kids are finished with HS, the one thing that makes my </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/5523327956450232667'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/5523327956450232667'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html?showComment=1256341938412#c5523327956450232667' title=''/><author><name>Lin</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17620974148522942492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-176750238084741430' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/posts/default/176750238084741430' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-963962003035096045</id><published>2009-10-23T16:41:39.713-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T16:41:39.713-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Good grief it just gets worse. My absolute support...</title><summary type='text'>Good grief it just gets worse. My absolute support as you get to the bottom of this. I hope and pray that those accusations are false. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-annie</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/963962003035096045'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/176750238084741430/comments/default/963962003035096045'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html?showComment=1256341299713#c963962003035096045' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://sweatpantsmom.blogspot.com/2009/10/i-thought-i-was-done-but-maybe-im-not.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9841971.post-176750238084741430' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9841971/posts/default/176750238084741430' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>